When we ask the Lord to fill our heart with love, we are asking HIM to put us in situations with people that are considered to be un-loveable in our mind. The Lord knows exactly what HE is doing when He constantly directs us to love someone that is always giving us “The Blues” so to say. This is how the love of God is perfected in us. Remember, He loved us first before we loved HIM. When we were in our sins Christ died for us. Love will always provide a way of escape for those that do not know true love. Let’s not tuck tail and shut the door on love, and remember 1 John 3:18
My little children, let us not love in word, neither in tongue; but in deed and in truth